Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Its not tough to value people.......everyone is worth it!!!


Woman!!
A little child asked its mother:
"Why do you cry?"
"Because I am a woman"she answers.
"I dont understand" the child says.
His mother hugs the child and says : "and you will never".


Later the little child asked its father: "Why does mommy cry?"
"All women cry for no reason", is all that his father could answer him.


When the child became an adult it asked god:
"God, why do women cry so easily?"
And God answered:
"when I created woman, she needed to be special.
I created her shoulders strong enough to bear the weight of the world.....
And soft enough to be comfortable."
"I gave her the strenth to give life,
The kind that accepts the rejection that often comes from children."
"I gave her the strength to allow her to go on when everyone else gives up.
The kind that takes care of her family, despite illness and fatigue."
"I gave her the sensitivity to love her children uncinditionally
Even when they have hurt her deeply."
"I gave her the strngth to endure her husband in his faults
And to stay at his side without weakening."
"And finally , I gave her tears to shed whenever she needs them to be shed."
"You see my child the beauty if a woman is not in the clothes she wears, nor is it in her face or in the way she does her hair"
THE BEAUTY OF A WOMEN RESIDES IN HER EYES.
IT IS THE DOOR TO HER HEART;
THE DOOR WHERE LOVE RESIDES.
"And it often through her tears that you see her heart go by."

To those who made you simle, when you needed it the most.....To those who have made you see the good side of things when you only saw the bad....
To those to whom you want to say...How much you value their friendship...or simply....
....thank you for giving me a glimpse of.....
....a better world....
Respect every human in life for life to return it to you!!
Treat the woman in your life with respect ( just views from all*!). It means putting her in high regard no matter who she is, where she came from and where she is heading towards. It means valuing her spirit within. If you show respect to any woman you meet this way, you will have a sure spot in her heart. She will respect you back and so will life.

Take the time to understand woman’s nature. This includes her physical and emotional makeup. True, a lot of men complained about how women can be very hard to understand and predict.
Women can be very mellow one minute and erupt in rage the next moment. Men should not get discouraged with this for its just one small part of how a woman is (The way men say, ‘That’s how we are!’ or That’s how I am!’). When you put more time understanding a woman’s mind and heart, you will find that women are lovable. You just need to know how to appreciate her uniqueness (Every human is unique!!).

Appreciate her by your love and gentleness; for all that she has done for you to be what you are today. Showing love means being patient, being kind, listening to her with an open mind, supporting her dreams, seeking out her good, etc (I am not kind or patient with my mom or others but most importantly I try!!).

The best way you can show your appreciation to the woman in your life is thru your words. It’s an important step not just to improve your relationship with her but also to make her feel wonderful and happy (genuinely!).

Tell her what a wonderful job she is doing at home, in her career, in school, community, what a wonderful cook she is, her recent accomplishment, etc. Remember to let her know also how much she means to you. Use words to encourage and support her to do the things she loves.

Spending time with her……. It’s the best investment you can ever make to maintain your place in a woman’s heart. Find even few minutes each day to focus yourself on the women who are dear to you (positively). Even a simple conversation with her means so much and will let her feel appreciated.

“Make a special woman in your life smile today; above all days, make them smile today!”
Cheers to life and womanhood!